Thursday, November 12, 2015

Keeping it Real, Grad School Style

So last week kind of kicked my trash.  I had approached the week thinking this is going to be a piece of cake.  Normally in my Quantitative methods class I have 2 major assignments due, however last week there was only one seemingly minor assignment (until I read the instructions).  Also in my Managerial Communications class we had just a paper and a power point presentation to put together, I actually kind of enjoy writing papers; those assignments are easy for me.  So I thought well I have Monday off work I’ll be able to get all my work done and be free and light the rest of the week. 

Funny how things never seem to work out the way you think they will.  Monday came and I decided to sleep in a little bit, and I woke up just in time to join my sister in law at a body pump class.  After that I ran a few errands and by the time I got home, it was lunchtime.  As many of you know I have missionaries for my church living with me, and Monday is their P-Day (their “day off”) and this particular p-day was one of the missionaries last days off as a missionary.  So we decided to all go out to lunch as a sort of farewell.  However due to that sidetrack, I wasn’t home until around 3 and when I sat down to work on my assignment I ended up taking a nap, when I woke up it was time to go to my parents for a family get together/bonfire.  So my completely free day to get all my assignments done was gone just like that.

That’s ok, I’m going on week 3 of no over time required in my job, and so I get off work at 2:30, plenty of time to work on my assignments during the week.  However one thing always led to another and I found myself Friday night starting to freak out a little because I didn’t have the paper written, or any of the assignments done.  I had to miss out on a friend’s bridal shower because of my magnificent ability to procrastinate.  Luckily I did get my quantitative methods assignment completed Friday night, and then after running lots of errands on Saturday I found myself working until about 11:30pm to get my paper and power point completed.  I don’t have high hopes for my grades in relation to these assignments, but I’m glad I got them done. 

What’s interesting is I noticed (at the end of the week) why I had such a hard time focusing and getting things done… you ready for it?  I “forgot” to delete my social media apps at the beginning of the week.  I have been doing this no social media experiment during the week for a couple of weeks, and I decided that I could probably use it in moderation.  However I learned that isn’t the case, I have a social media addiction.  Now you may notice me still posting during the week, but that’s not from my phone, my phone is social media app free during the week.  Sometimes I’ll get on Facebook at the end of the day when all my work is done, but only from my computer.  And if that starts to become too distracting I will stop doing even that. 

But another thing I noticed this last week was I was blessed in having my paper and presentation come together the way it did.  I made a promise to myself and God that I will not do homework on Sundays.  My mom always told us about how she did that when she went back to school and it always blessed her life.  When I first started college I didn’t stick to that 100% but always tried to not do work on Sunday.  However after my mission I made a goal to get all As for the rest of my college career, to do this I made a promise to never do work on Sundays, that often meant waking up at 4 or 5 in the morning to finish up work left over, but I’ll tell you this… I hit my goal of all As. 

As I’m now starting my grad school career, I’d love to get all As, but I’m not sure that will happen, however I am keeping my commitment to not do any home work on Sundays, which meant I had to work super fast to get everything done by the end of Saturday night.  As hard and stressful as it was I’m incredibly proud of myself (is that ok to say) that I was able to stick to my commitment. 

This week is going a lot smoother if you are wondering, I have in fact finished all my assignments for the week and even though I have a few random things I have to do throughout the week to be “present” in my online classes I’m basically free for the rest of this week and it’s an amazing feeling!! I’m even making plans to start working on next week’s assignments this week so I can continue being stress free.


It is hard to make a commitment to not do work on Sundays; it takes a lot of faith.  However I can promise form experience that God keeps all His promises, if we keep ours.  One of my take aways from this last general conference was we need to make a better effort to keep the Sabbath day holy.  What are ways you are keeping the Sabbath day holy?
I can't leave Prim out, she won't let me!