Sunday, October 18, 2015

How 5 elephants helped me stay safely on the edge

Over the last year I have felt overwhelming bouts of stress and anxiety.  I knew I needed to make changes in my life but didn’t know where to start.  I would read blogs, articles, and anything I could find to try and see what I could try to maybe help me with this anxiety, and also my desire to change the direction my life was headed.  One thing I kept reading about was acupuncture.  When I first started reading about acupuncture I thought, but do people really do that? I hadn’t had any experience or knowledge of this being practiced around here.  Then I heard my sister talk about how she goes to get acupuncture and how much she likes it.  So I started to see if there were any places here in Louisville and how much it would cost.  Unfortunately acupuncture can be very expensive so when I saw that I just put it on the back burner.  I had mentioned to my mom that I wanted to try it sometime, but it was just too expensive. 

One day back earlier this year my mom found out about this health center opening up and they were doing an open house and offering free “samples” of the services they provide.  One of the services they provide is acupuncture, so my mom and I went to check out this open house and we were able to try a mini session.  I told the person doing the acupuncture (Becky Flynn) about my stress and anxiety, and my mom told her about how she has really bad sinuses.  Becky then chose a few points for both my mom and I and then we just had to sit very still for about 15-20 min.  My mom said that as soon as one of the needles went in she could feel her ear open up from some of the built up sinus pressure.  I didn’t notice anything right in the moment, but I also wasn’t really expecting to feel anything.  Stress and anxiety are so hard to measure, I didn’t know if I’d notice a difference.  However on the drive home I felt about 20lbs lighter, I could tell a major difference. 


My mom and I decided we wanted to keep going and see how this could help us with our physical aches and pains, but we soon found out that the health center was still too expensive for what I could afford.  But then Becky told us she has her own practice outside the health clinic and she offers a sliding scale pricing, to make it affordable for anyone needing acupuncture.  As soon as we found this out we started going to see her.  My mom and I went regularly for 4 weeks and then we took a bit of a break. 

One of my biggest concerns about trying to start eating healthier, is I couldn’t control my hunger.  I would try to eat less and eat healthier but then I’d just get so hungry I couldn’t stand it.  I mentioned this to Becky, and told her about how I was starting to meet with a nutritionist and I wanted to have more energy and desire to make these choices.  I honestly believe that getting acupuncture has helped me get to the point that I am right now. 

I started writing this blog post a couple weeks ago, and because of how busy I am during the week I have had to work on this only on the weekends.  I’m so glad it’s taken me a little while to get this together because I have liked acupuncture ever since I started, but after this week I LOVE acupuncture. 


I have been so stressed about doing school full time and work more than full time, and I had my first test in my stats class this last week.  During my undergrad at BYU-Idaho I had a routine that I did before every test, I would go to the temple the day before and the day of I would get a Jamba juice.  So I stuck with that routine, I went to the temple Thursday night, and then I had an acupuncture appointment Friday afternoon, my plan was to take the test right after my appointment, and her office is very close to a smoothie king so I was planning on getting a smoothie on my way home.

I joked with my mom about hopefully Becky can help me with being prepared for my test, and then when I went to my appointment I mentioned that I had a test that day.   Becky then stated she was glad I told her about my test because she would do some brain boosting points.  She also addressed my stress, and I mentioned how unbelievably tired I was, and that I had a horrible headache that just wouldn’t go away.

I left that appointment with absolutely no traces of a headache (and trust me it was a really really bad one), I was so wide awake that I didn’t even go to bed until around midnight that night, and I wasn’t even a little tired.  When I went into that appointment I was so tired I was questioning if I could even take my test because I felt my brain shutting down.  And my stress was basically gone.  I was able to take my test when I got home, and while I didn’t get a perfect score (that would require a miracle haha) I did sooooo much better on my test than I ever anticipated.
 
Excuse me while I go set up appointments for the day of my tests for the rest of the semester… I’ve definitely found a new thing to add to my pre-test routines J.

I’m not saying this is a cure all, and that I never feel stress and anxiety anymore.  What I am saying is it has helped me come a long way in the last 4-5 months I have been going. Another thing I love about this whole experience is Becky, she is so helpful in explaining what she’s doing, and why she does what she does.  Honestly if you live in the Louisville area and are even a little bit curious about acupuncture you should check her out. 

Whenever I tell people that I get acupuncture their eyes get real big and the first thing they ask is but doesn’t it hurt? Isn’t weird to have needles sticking out of you? Well let me tell you, it doesn’t hurt, not really.  Honestly there have been a few times, and a few pressure points that do hurt, I’m not gonna lie.  But the majority of the time I don’t feel anything, and if I do it’s like someone lightly snapping a rubber band on your wrist, it stings but quickly goes away. 
 
I honestly feel like going to get acupuncture has helped me keep my stress and anxiety down, has helped me stay motivated and focused on my trying to eat healthier and be healthier.  I used to get headaches daily, and I took medicine every day to prevent these headaches, yet I’d still get them. I have since run out of the medicine and I was scared of not being able to get it renewed, but when I have gone to get acupuncture I am able to keep the headaches under control without the medicine.

I still very much believe in modern medicine and going to the doctor and taking medicine, but I also feel like if there is a way to get and feel better without medicine, I’d like to try that too. 


Below, and scattered throughout this post are some pics of when I got acupuncture the last couple of times, I often not only get the traditional acupuncture with needles and stuff, but I also get a treatment called Gua Sha.  
 I have pics of what my skin looks like after that, and it honestly looks a lot more painful than it is.  I can’t even describe how much I love Gua Sha.  I’m sure many of you have gotten that pesky crick in your neck from sleeping on it wrong or twisting it just the wrong way.  I do all the time, and I’ve gone to chiropractors to try and get it worked out, and I’ve gotten massages to try and get it worked out, and while I love both the chiropractor and getting a massage, I have never had that crick in my neck go away faster than I have with the Gua Sha technique.  She also does a technique called moxa, and I’ve had this done a couple of times and it has serious instant boosts of energy.



I can't say enough good things about my experience with acupuncture and I suggest it to anyone who listens... seriously guys give it a try... and especially if you live near or in the Louisville area check our Becky Flynn and her practice 5 Elephants (isn't that the cutest name).  And I promise she will take great care of you!! And one of the best parts, it's so very affordable!!   

This is the moxibustion therapy.  I'm not exactly sure how it works, but the two times I've had this done I have left with so much energy it's unreal!!

Monday, October 5, 2015

Thoughts and Ramblings from the Edge

Well life has been crazy!! I knew it would get messy once school started, but man has it gotten messy!! I'm realizing that even though I worked 60 hours a week before I had a lot more free time than I gave myself credit for, now that I'm working 55-60 hours a week, trying to complete the iron man challenge and now I'm doing classes full time I don't know how I'm gonna keep up!! Today I planned out my week and I don't have a minute of time to just relax!!

This weekend however I made time to "relax" which was during the 8 hours of conference I had the incredible opportunity to experience.

First I started out my Saturday in the best way possible, at the Down Syndrome of Louisville event where I walked a 4K.  I'm hoping next year I'll actually be able to run it, however this year I did improve greatly on my time and performance form last year.  Last year I was totally not in shape and I remember having to stop and rest often and came well in last place, I was also in a ton of pain the rest of the day and the next day.  This year I didn't need to stop and rest even once, and my friend Valerie and I didn't come in last place... I'm pretty sure there were at least 5-6 people still behind us!! Also I wasn't sore at all, in fact I had wanted to stop at the gym to do some biking to finish up the Iron Man challenge I'm working on but I didn't have the time.

 My friend Valerie was so nice and came to support our team and be my walking buddy, even though it was FREEZING!!
This is Ruby's original poster, I was obviously excited to see it.

The reason I didn't have time to go to the gym was because every 6 months my church has a general conference where all the members around the world gather to watch the Prophet and Apostles speak to us over many hours on Saturday and Sunday.  It is my favorite weekend of the year and I feel real sadness every time the last prayer is said on Sunday.

I'll admit though I didn't always feel this way about conference, I always loved conference weekend because when I was little it usually meant my cousins coming in and being able to play all weekend, but as I got older and watched it I don't feel like I truly appreciated the sacredness of conference until I was out on my own at college and I got to choose for myself how I was going to make conference apart of my life.  I gained an even deeper appreciation of conference during my mission, and this deep appreciation has not gotten any dimmer since I've been home.

This has been one of my favorite conferences of my life time, it's hard to pick a favorite talk, but I could probably narrow down my top 2 favorite sessions, the general women's session and the Saturday morning session were my top 2.

While I know I'm not "old" at the age of 28, however being 28 and single in the Mormon church, you could say I'm practically an old maid.  I absolutely love my single status, I know it's not something my parents probably want to hear, but I do enjoy being single, I'm a very independent person and I think if I ever do meet a guy who is crazy enough to want to marry me it will be hard for me to settle down.  Those are things I'm working out... don't worry I know it's a commandment to get married and all that jazz.

However with all that being said, it can be a little hard or discouraging to be single in the church.  There is such an emphasis on strong marriages and families, as there should be I believe.  But I often feel like the single people of the church get over looked, like oh this is just a temporary part in your life, lets focus on the more important members.  I know that is not true, trust me I'm not trying to play a pity card here or anything. But sitting through talk after talk, and lesson after lesson on marriage and how hard it is to be a mom and things like that, it can wear a person down.  I do have to do a shout out for my ward family however, they do an amazing job of making me feel loved and included even though I don't have a husband and kids.

But I just want to use that little bit of background to emphasize how absolutely AMAZING the general women's session of conference was.  All those feelings I've ever felt of being a "second rate Mormon" were totally washed away as I listened to talk after talk, and watched 2 videos highlighting single sisters.  I saw and felt and knew in that moment that this is a church for everyone, no matter what marital status you are.  I am not alone, my God knows who I am and what my struggles are intimately.

I felt like this entire conference was written and given just for me, and I know just about everyone else who watched this conference feels the same way.  I already love the 3 new apostles who were sustained this conference and I can't wait to get to know them better.  I loved the talks on women and mothers, the talks about the Atonement and Sabbath day observance, the talks about the plan of salvation, trials and progression.  I feel renewed, rejuvenated and ready to do better and be better.

My heart ached seeing 3 of the Apostles I've seen sitting up on that stand my whole life not there, but I also rejoiced in all the talks that mentioned these men and how amazing they were.  I cried watching President Monson's strength fail him right in front of our eyes.  I love him so much and can't even imagine the weight on his shoulders and the pain he is in from missing his beloved wife Frances.  I adored the children's choir on Saturday and seeing those two little boys in the front row holding hands was just about the cutest thing I saw.  There were so many big and little moments of conference that I feel will be forever etched in my mind.

I have renewed my conviction to keep the Sabbath day holy, and I want to try to find ways that I can be better at it.  I have decided to take up the challenge given by Elder Larry R Lawrence of the 70 in the first session to ask the Lord in sincere prayer what I lack and what is keeping me from progressing (admittedly this is something I'm nervous about doing).  I've also committed to "ponderize" a scripture a week. I will strive to always be temple worthy, and I have made specific goals on how I can attend more regularly.  These are just a few things I have taken away from conference and committed myself to do, however they are not the only things I have committed to trying.  If I listed everything I got out of conference this post would be way too long, and also more personal than I'm willing to share.


What were some of your favorite parts of conference? What are some of the things you feel more committed to do going forward? I'm already planning on re-watching conference this week, and I can't wait! If you haven't had the chance to watch it I recommend it, these talks are great no matter where you are in life, check them out here: lds.org

Just a pic of Prim enjoying conference with me :)